Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Joeythelips » Wed Jan 08, 2014 5:51 pm

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Postby Blue Since 76 » Wed Jan 08, 2014 6:00 pm

Dameerto wrote:it reminds me of the whole whole 'Obama is the first black president, aren't we an enlightened nation?' thing - it WOULD have been remarkable and enlightened if it had happened with no one feeling the need to mention the colour of his skin.


Agree. It was the same when that diver came out (not Young). It was headline news. If he'd have said he had a girlfriend, only OK magazine would have cared. That we still make a deal out if it makes it worse for people who just want to live their lives in whatever way they want.

If a City player is banging a man, woman or sheep I couldn't care less as long as it doesn't affect their performance on the pitch. But then we live in a country where the Daily Mail is one of the most popular websites, so is it any surprise
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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Herb » Wed Jan 08, 2014 6:07 pm

Blue Since 76 wrote:
Dameerto wrote:it reminds me of the whole whole 'Obama is the first black president, aren't we an enlightened nation?' thing - it WOULD have been remarkable and enlightened if it had happened with no one feeling the need to mention the colour of his skin.


Agree. It was the same when that diver came out (not Young). It was headline news. If he'd have said he had a girlfriend, only OK magazine would have cared. That we still make a deal out if it makes it worse for people who just want to live their lives in whatever way they want.

If a City player is banging a man, woman or sheep I couldn't care less as long as it doesn't affect their performance on the pitch. But then we live in a country where the Daily Mail is one of the most popular websites, so is it any surprise


Which one's banging the sheep then?
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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Joeythelips » Wed Jan 08, 2014 6:12 pm

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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Wooders » Wed Jan 08, 2014 6:13 pm

Apparently it was a fake account on twitter
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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Herb » Wed Jan 08, 2014 6:18 pm

Wooders wrote:Apparently it was a fake account on twitter


A sheep had a fake account on twitter?



You're having a laugh aren't you?
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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Dameerto » Wed Jan 08, 2014 7:36 pm

Herb wrote:
Wooders wrote:Apparently it was a fake account on twitter


A sheep had a fake account on twitter?



You're having a laugh aren't you?


He pulled the wool over our eyes.
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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Chopper » Wed Jan 08, 2014 7:58 pm

Looks like Ewe got conned.
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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby budfox » Wed Jan 08, 2014 8:02 pm

Could have been Shearer.
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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Lev Bronstein » Thu Jan 09, 2014 9:07 am

You have to admire the courage he showed by admitting that he once played for West Ham
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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Breks » Thu Jan 09, 2014 9:12 am

Lev Bronstein wrote:You have to admire the courage he showed by admitting that he once played for West Ham


Hahaha. Quality
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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby john@staustell » Thu Jan 09, 2014 9:12 am

I fail to see why sportpersons feel the need to bombard us with their sexuality. I couldn't give a flying f***
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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Cocacolajojo1 » Thu Jan 09, 2014 9:20 am

john@staustell wrote:I fail to see why sportpersons feel the need to bombard us with their sexuality. I couldn't give a flying f***


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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Pedro1006 » Thu Jan 09, 2014 10:50 am

Coming out as a modern footballer is if anything becoming more difficult and I don't see this changing anytime soon.

Many clubs would have extreme difficulty is signing an openly gay player including ours. There are many parts of the world where being openly gay can be a death sentence by mob or even more formally by statute. Most gays in these countries cover their sexuality for to reveal as much would leave them open to prosecution, blackmail, intimidation, threat of violence and actual violence.

I would be shocked if any Middle Eastern owned entity would acquire an openly gay player. This would be unacceptable back home and could cause serious problems for them. Many Premiership players now originate from areas with fundamentalist views from Europe, Africa, Middle East and occasionally Far East and would potentially have serious objections of even playing with Gays. We don't know if many professional players are homophobic, but as a gay would you want to find out. What about tours to the Middle East or the coming World Cup where threats and boycotts could very rapidly escalate to major political crises.

We tend to look at the world in very different ways from within our liberal democracy. Even being a Christian in some countries is enough to place believers in real danger. I have little or next to no knowledge about the private lives of our owners, players and management, but I suspect many do not share many of the liberal happy clappy multi cultie kumbaya views expressed here.
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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Chinners » Thu Jan 09, 2014 10:59 am

Sam Wallace: Fans in Britain would be supportive of a gay player - just as most have been for Thomas Hitzlsperger

When Robbie Rogers visited Leeds United last month, to launch his former club’s anti-discriminatory campaign, the American, who came out as gay last year, was given a reception at Elland Road that may have surprised some who jump to conclusions about English football fans.
Before the game Rogers walked around the perimeter of the pitch at Elland Road, that bastion of a lost era of English football, of dirty Leeds, of teak-tough 1970s players and even tougher supporters – the original Damned United. Yet those who encountered Rogers had nothing but kind words for the young man who had originally decided to retire from the game when he first came out but has since resumed his playing career.
A television crew filmed the footage of Leeds fans shaking Rogers’ hand and saying how much they admired his decision to come out. Of course, one should expect nothing less, but then this is English football where we have always been told that the people who pay to watch games every week are such an intolerant bunch that life would be hell for any player who did not announce himself as heterosexual.

As Thomas Hitzlsperger becomes the latest – and only the fourth – professional footballer to announce himself as gay, it is a personal view that the people who watch English football week in, week out are not as bigoted as some would have you believe. Those tens of thousands of people who traverse the country every week who I bump into in the course of their endless pilgrimage (and my job) through motorway service stations and stadium concourses are not all homophobes.
Those who do not watch football regularly fail to recognise that simply because the average fan does not fit the template of a member of the tolerant metropolitan class, they would turn on a gay footballer. What football fans never fail to recognise is the best qualities of an individual, as a person and a player, and what he gives to the club that they are wedded to for life.
They share in the weekly triumphs and despairs of their club’s players. There is no hiding one’s personality or one’s limitations on a football pitch where the emotions are forever writ large. Fans judge players on how they perform, to the best of their varied ability. They talk about their club’s players as if they know them personally, and in many respects they do. They can be their harshest critics, although, from personal experience, they tend not to tolerate the same criticism from a journalist.

Football fans know courage when they see it and they would recognise better than anyone what it would take to be the first top-level active footballer to come out. It is a personal view that reaction to a high-profile gay footballer who, unlike Hitzlsperger, was still playing the game would, even in the unruly, unchecked atmosphere of a matchday stadium, be largely supportive and positive.
There will always be those supporters who hold unacceptable views, just as you expect to find in any group as large as a football crowd. It is said that attitudes in football contributed to the suicide of Justin Fashanu, the first openly gay footballer, eight years after he came out. While it may have contributed there were other major factors, such as the disapproval of members of his family at the time including his brother, John.

For all the sadness of the end of Fashanu’s life, he still played after coming out in 1990 and was briefly the assistant manager at Torquay United. That was in an era when attitudes across British society as a whole were much less enlightened. Yet football did not shun him then and 24 years on from his announcement, a leading gay footballer could expect a much more sophisticated outlook.

Rogers initially retired on coming out but is now back in the game. The story of Anton Hysen, also openly gay, is a difficult one to judge given that unlike his father Glenn, a former international and Liverpool player, he has never played outside the Swedish lower leagues.
In an ideal world, there would be no prejudice at all. The reality is that in the modern Premier League dressing room, diversity is taken for granted. The only thing that connects the modern first team player in the English top flight, just as likely to have come from Europe, Africa, or South America as Britain, is that all of them are millionaires.

Perhaps the biggest bulwark to acceptance of a gay footballer in the dressing room is likely to be from footballers who have been brought up in the more zealous aspects of whatever religion they happen to follow. The old-school English macho culture of first-team initiation ceremonies and drinking bottles of beer in the communal bath – a culture that might once have militated against a gay footballer – is all but gone.
Football led the way in British society when it came to offering a meritocracy for the sons of the Caribbean immigrants of the 1950s. While we can never pretend it was easy for those black pioneers, who had to endure some unforgivable abuse, the first big-name gay footballer, when he one day announces himself, will find himself in a much more tolerant world.
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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Alex Sapphire » Thu Jan 09, 2014 11:05 am

Pedro1006 wrote:
Many clubs would have extreme difficulty is signing an openly gay player including ours.


You may be right.
We also seem to have let our membership of Stonewall's Diversity Champions Scheme lapse, which is a shame after a promising start:
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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Pedro1006 » Thu Jan 09, 2014 12:10 pm

English fans would probably now accept openly gay players. I can see that a day soon when this would be common in the amateur game and lower leagues. Many women's game players are already openly gay.

The stakeholders of the Premiership are entirely different.
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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Nickyboy » Thu Jan 09, 2014 12:25 pm

Do openly gay TV celebs get persecuted, blackmailed and subjected to violence? I think that side of it is being over egged.

There will probably be some shit sung on the terraces - but is that any worse than what Beckham got about what Victoria took up her back passage?

If the gay community want equality they have to accept the banter side of football as well (not condoning vile abusive stuff here).
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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Alioune DVToure » Thu Jan 09, 2014 12:46 pm

Pedro1006 wrote:Many women's game players are already openly gay.


Are you sure about that?
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Re: Thomas Hitzlsperger has come out

Postby Pedro1006 » Thu Jan 09, 2014 2:01 pm

Openly gay female footy players
http://www.dw.de/steeped-in-a-mans-spor ... a-15074064

World Cup’s out lesbian and bisexual players.http://www.afterellen.com/the-wonderful ... p/07/2011/

FIFA Rankings Women
http://www.fifa.com/worldranking/rankingtable/women/

Most teams originate from: liberal democracies, catholic countries, taoist, sino or countries where females have an important part to play in civic life.
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