Why so many draws ? where is that great leader ?

I have not done any analysis on this at all but watching the games it always seem to be down to Leadership within the team. All teams that win things have 2-3 leaders who turn games around or ensure the momentum is always with their side. Who runs our team ? it is impossible to work out for me. Toure, Bellamy, Barry, De Yong .....all the wrong type for me. I want a bit of a bully boy who takes no shit from either the opposition or his own team mates, who turns in countless consitant performances and absolutly commands respect from the players, management and the club and fans. Dont tell me we could not get that player ! we have the resources, but where are they and who that is I do not know I'm lost for a name.