irblinx wrote:ant london wrote:Did you lot grow up as indulged feral children where your parents let you do what you wanted or something? I'm shocked ;-)
Are you saying you didn't? I always knew you were a posh kid
busted!! haha
irblinx wrote:ant london wrote:Did you lot grow up as indulged feral children where your parents let you do what you wanted or something? I'm shocked ;-)
Are you saying you didn't? I always knew you were a posh kid
ant london wrote:Beefymcfc wrote: having his parents there just allows more spoilt behaviour I reckon.
really?
fuck me Beefers....I don't know what life was like for you as a child but I have to say that when Old Mother London is around (even today) my behaviour is SIGNIFICANTLY moderated and I am much less likely to get into any bother.
Maybe you were spoiled rotten but my parental unit certainly believed more in the old tough love approach, and I'd suspect the same may be true chez Balotelli
Beefymcfc wrote:Fuck sake, 20 years old and he needs his ma to hold his hand.
wolfcity wrote:
He's also living in another Country on his own for the first time. Footballers are people too!
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ant london wrote:wolfcity wrote:
He's also living in another Country on his own for the first time. Footballers are people too!
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That was entirely my point, glad I'm not the only one who can see it.
I lived and worked overseas for a year when I was 20, I wasn't at a uni with loads of other foreigners, nor was I in the position that a few of you on here have been....in the army.....with essentially a massive bunch of similar aged lads. It was only France but I was working in a large company, the only Brit, the youngest person doing what I was doing (basically an industrial placement) and with zero support structure in terms of friends, family or anything "familiar" to lean on.
Those who have met me know that I'm not exactly a meek, shrinking violet but I'll tell you what.....for at least the first 4-6 months it wasn't the easiest experience. It was pretty lonely at times and at others it was fucking miserable, my old man died when I was back for Xmas and then I had to go back and do another 6 months. In the end it was a great experience and looking back on it I'm very glad I did it but along the way....well it was often no picnic.
Sure, these days being a footballer with millions in the bank might open up more options, yes people would want to talk to you and birds would be all over you but honestly.....it wouldn't make me automatically happy. What anyone needs to be content is to enjoy their life....that includes work (having some decent relationships in your workplace as well as enjoying the job) and having some friends and maybe family to spend time with out of work.
I can understand lots of peoples' reactions re Mario and other footballers of "what the fuck does he have to worry about" but I would say that, on a human level, most are saying that as they have never been in this position at that age (not the footballer part, just young and solo in an alien environment) and haven't a clue as to how they might feel/cope.
ant london wrote:wolfcity wrote:
He's also living in another Country on his own for the first time. Footballers are people too!
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That was entirely my point, glad I'm not the only one who can see it.
I lived and worked overseas for a year when I was 20, I wasn't at a uni with loads of other foreigners, nor was I in the position that a few of you on here have been....in the army.....with essentially a massive bunch of similar aged lads. It was only France but I was working in a large company, the only Brit, the youngest person doing what I was doing (basically an industrial placement) and with zero support structure in terms of friends, family or anything "familiar" to lean on.
Those who have met me know that I'm not exactly a meek, shrinking violet but I'll tell you what.....for at least the first 4-6 months it wasn't the easiest experience. It was pretty lonely at times and at others it was fucking miserable, my old man died when I was back for Xmas and then I had to go back and do another 6 months. In the end it was a great experience and looking back on it I'm very glad I did it but along the way....well it was often no picnic.
Sure, these days being a footballer with millions in the bank might open up more options, yes people would want to talk to you and birds would be all over you but honestly.....it wouldn't make me automatically happy. What anyone needs to be content is to enjoy their life....that includes work (having some decent relationships in your workplace as well as enjoying the job) and having some friends and maybe family to spend time with out of work.
I can understand lots of peoples' reactions re Mario and other footballers of "what the fuck does he have to worry about" but I would say that, on a human level, most are saying that as they have never been in this position at that age (not the footballer part, just young and solo in an alien environment) and haven't a clue as to how they might feel/cope.
Niall Quinns Discopants wrote:ant london wrote:wolfcity wrote:
He's also living in another Country on his own for the first time. Footballers are people too!
.
That was entirely my point, glad I'm not the only one who can see it.
I lived and worked overseas for a year when I was 20, I wasn't at a uni with loads of other foreigners, nor was I in the position that a few of you on here have been....in the army.....with essentially a massive bunch of similar aged lads. It was only France but I was working in a large company, the only Brit, the youngest person doing what I was doing (basically an industrial placement) and with zero support structure in terms of friends, family or anything "familiar" to lean on.
Those who have met me know that I'm not exactly a meek, shrinking violet but I'll tell you what.....for at least the first 4-6 months it wasn't the easiest experience. It was pretty lonely at times and at others it was fucking miserable, my old man died when I was back for Xmas and then I had to go back and do another 6 months. In the end it was a great experience and looking back on it I'm very glad I did it but along the way....well it was often no picnic.
Sure, these days being a footballer with millions in the bank might open up more options, yes people would want to talk to you and birds would be all over you but honestly.....it wouldn't make me automatically happy. What anyone needs to be content is to enjoy their life....that includes work (having some decent relationships in your workplace as well as enjoying the job) and having some friends and maybe family to spend time with out of work.
I can understand lots of peoples' reactions re Mario and other footballers of "what the fuck does he have to worry about" but I would say that, on a human level, most are saying that as they have never been in this position at that age (not the footballer part, just young and solo in an alien environment) and haven't a clue as to how they might feel/cope.
You do make good point Ant but still......at 20, being single, wild and free your heart is supposed to be filled with natural yearn for adventure. Like "I'll be living in cool new foreign country, earning tons and I'll probably get some nice beaver as well". Despite your struggles, I'm sure that's the way you saw it as well.
And yeah. it might be bit of a struggle but you'd think "sod it, last thing I'm going to do is give up and go back". That's why I don't understand some of these youngsters coming over and then being completely overwhelmed with the whole experience. I mean, I was 18 when I moved out of the house and as nice as my parents are (my mom actually has one of the wittiest and most dry sense of humour I've ever known) I could have never even thought about going back live with them. EVER.
ant london wrote:wolfcity wrote:He's also living in another Country on his own for the first time. Footballers are people too!
That was entirely my point, glad I'm not the only one who can see it.
I lived and worked overseas for a year when I was 20, I wasn't at a uni with loads of other foreigners, nor was I in the position that a few of you on here have been....in the army.....with essentially a massive bunch of similar aged lads. It was only France but I was working in a large company, the only Brit, the youngest person doing what I was doing (basically an industrial placement) and with zero support structure in terms of friends, family or anything "familiar" to lean on.
Those who have met me know that I'm not exactly a meek, shrinking violet but I'll tell you what.....for at least the first 4-6 months it wasn't the easiest experience. It was pretty lonely at times and at others it was fucking miserable, my old man died when I was back for Xmas and then I had to go back and do another 6 months. In the end it was a great experience and looking back on it I'm very glad I did it but along the way....well it was often no picnic.
Sure, these days being a footballer with millions in the bank might open up more options, yes people would want to talk to you and birds would be all over you but honestly.....it wouldn't make me automatically happy. What anyone needs to be content is to enjoy their life....that includes work (having some decent relationships in your workplace as well as enjoying the job) and having some friends and maybe family to spend time with out of work.
I can understand lots of peoples' reactions re Mario and other footballers of "what the fuck does he have to worry about" but I would say that, on a human level, most are saying that as they have never been in this position at that age (not the footballer part, just young and solo in an alien environment) and haven't a clue as to how they might feel/cope.
Dameerto wrote:He's in trouble again - will probably be in the Tuesday 'Bollox', it's all over the European press - last summer he apparently went on a tour of an area of Naples known to be a Mafia 'stronghold' and in the company of two men who were later identified as godfathers. There's been a leaked Police report in which he's named.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/sport/footba ... mafia.html
One Italian newspaper, La Stampa, accused the star player of wandering the streets and grim housing estates of the area “as though it was Disney World”.
Mario Balotelli has written an open letter explaining why he received a guided tour of Naples backstreets by members of organised crime.
“Around a year ago I was invited to Naples to pick up the Golden Boy award and stopped for a few days on vacation,” wrote the Manchester City and Italy striker.
“I was taken to see many wonderful places in Naples, like Piazza del Plebiscito, but I also asked to visit those areas off the beaten track. Having seen the film Gomorra, I was amazed by this whole other reality that exists.
“I wanted to see for myself and understand the serious problems in the suburbs of Naples that the film talked about. It is a very different reality to the one I grew up with and experience now...etc..etc
Beeks wrote:Balo is apparently now trending on twitter
Regarding him buying Darlington and saving them from Administration
Hahaha
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