carl_feedthegoat wrote:DoomMerchant wrote:Wooders wrote:DoomMerchant wrote:i have two Korean children from RoK. We're going there next summer i hope. the plight of North Koreans compared to their wealthier brothers and sisters is really truly sad. It's much more complex than we in the West even know i suspect.
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have you adopted them or do you just "have" them ? as caring for them etc..
We adopted them. We do have an extensive collection tho. The second was technically an internet purchase. Ok technically he was a waiting child we saw on a website, but still.
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Back in the 80,s many people bought cabbage patch kids...I dont know if they still do.
there is certainly a fad of white people adopting asian babies. Guilty as charged. it's been one of the most awesome things i could have imagined as well.
Adopting domestically in the States is potentially a lot more risky than INTL adoption, as birth parents have rights which can allow them, or some extended family member to basically petition the court for your child back. Not exactly a situation you want to be in when you decide to adopt. Thusly, loads of foreign kids get adopted. In truth tho, when you examine the treatment of children in Republic of Korea vs the US, or other nations which are popular to adopt from such as China, South America or Russia...Korea takes way better care of their kids, and you don't have to worry about unethical, shady bullshit or kids who've been mistreated like you will sometimes run into with those other countries...including the US. Korea has a really proud tradition of taking care of these babies. This boom in Korean children being adopted in the US started with war babies from the Korean war btw, and some ex-soldiers frustration at the lack of support for this lost generation of kids. Korea frowns upon single motherhood, and children out of wedlock or abortion in a pretty serious fashion thusly creating a fair amount of kids who need homes.
file that under too much information...smartass.
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